Me? Getting Married? Not Yet! :)

Getting married is expensive. That's one of the many excuses/jokes I tell those people who ask why I'm still single. :D Why are they such in a hurry to see me in a wedding dress when I don't want to think of getting married yet?

Okay, here are the real reasons why I'm still single (haha! I don't really know why I have to tell you this!:)

1. No one has proposed to me yet, even my boyfriend! (He's too young to propose anyway and I don't want to force him. LOL! I want him to enjoy his young life first before getting into a very serious relationship. But I won't let him marry me when I'm over 40, though. Haha!

2. It's really expensive to get married nowadays. We can't afford it as of now. :D It's not like in the United States that women can wear simple wedding dresses and exchange vows with their husband just in front of a judge or a priest without inviting their loved ones and without a wedding reception. After a month or so, they get divorced. I don't want my marriage to end that way. Of course, I want my wedding to be memorable: in a Church, witnessed by family and friends. Even if it's not a very expensive wedding, I want it to be beautiful.

3. I still enjoy being single, seriously. I am not in a hurry to tie the knot. I just want to bide my time and enjoy my love life without rushing into marriage. I am not ready for the "Big" thing yet!

I hope people will just refrain from asking me silly questions about my single blessedness! :) I'm young and free and I am enjoying my life right now! I'm not getting married yet, okay? :D

Hoping To Comfort A Friend

One of my friends is going through rough times recently. She and her husband are not in good terms right now. They're not yet separated but she's planning to move out together with her son as soon as she gets a job. Her son is already 5 years old, big enough for her to put him in an uppababy vista stroller when she gets out of their house. She won't have a hard time bringing her son with her anymore since he's a big boy now.

I really feel bad about her situation. They've been married for more than five years. I can't believe it's so easy for them to ruin what they had.

I haven't visited my friend yet and haven't known the story behind the break up. I can feel she's devastated but trying real hard to hide the pain she's going through. I wish I have the time to be with her and somehow comfort her. I hope I can find the time soon enough.